tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26896646.post115010146066253134..comments2023-07-01T07:03:02.347-08:00Comments on Becca's Place: beccahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02655632527260925099noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26896646.post-1150178958044761262006-06-12T22:09:00.000-08:002006-06-12T22:09:00.000-08:00not too much... :)This is a rough time for us righ...not too much... :)<BR/>This is a rough time for us right now and tensions are HIGH. We're both praying we just get through it. Jake's making some big decisions about pulling out of school and where we're moving and it's just yucky. We're trying not to take it out on each other, but we fail at that sometimes.<BR/>Anyway, it's HARD, but NO WAY am I going to quit this one and try again with somebody else... no way.beccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02655632527260925099noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26896646.post-1150158467954512322006-06-12T16:27:00.000-08:002006-06-12T16:27:00.000-08:00I can so relate! My husband and I will be married...I can so relate! My husband and I will be married 8 years in July! I can't believe it! We have just recently begun to communicate honestly! We spent the first part of our marriage just being "polite" - "passive-aggressive" to each other. Well, it finally got to the point where we were both willing to start complaining. We said we would be honest about our feelings but would not say things out of anger or to intentionally hurt. Our house was no fun for about 6 months! But, we made it... at least until the next round. I understand the need for a contract and a promise before God, otherwise, it would be much easier to make an emotional foolish decision and bolt. Some days, my husband looks like a stinky alien from outer space. Other days, he is my dream man! Go figure... needless to say... I understand! Marriage would not be easier with anyone else, with exceptions. I view my marriage kind of like a video game. Each level gets a little harder but the bonus round is awesome. Divorce and new marriage... all the way back to the beginning of the video game! No thanks! I am happy where I am with my imperfect teddy bear. Too much?<BR/><BR/>ashAshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08146855149709570638noreply@blogger.com